Where I go from here

28 Jun

A couple of things happened this week that have made me think about this blog.

First off, my laptop died. I had put it in sleep mode before I left the house to go get my hair done on Tuesday evening, and when I got home a few hours later and went to turn it on, nothing happened. It went to sleep and just never woke up. Talk about a good way to go.

There are some things on the hard drive that I’m going to try to recover, but pretty much everything is gone. Luckily, most of our family photos are backed up on our external hard drive. But I had filled that up about 6 months ago and we have yet to buy a new one, so some pictures and videos are lost. I won’t really know what all is gone until I need something and realize it was on the old laptop. Oh well, it’s a tough lesson in backing up your files, I guess.

I had just begun looking into buying a new laptop when I started wondering how we’d afford a new one since it’s not really in the budget for a one-family income. Then yesterday, my old boss called and asked if I’d be interested in doing some work from home. $$$ Cha-ching!!! $$$

For 6 months. $$$$$$ CHA-CHING!!! $$$$$$

Yes, please.

Now the only thing I needed to figure out was how I’d do the work with the kids around. She wanted me to think about it and get back to her tomorrow with an idea of how many hours a week I could put in, and when I’d most likely be logging those hours. I started to think about how I could find reliable, low-cost childcare so that I could put in 2-3 hours a day of work and still rake in a decent hourly rate. Β I immediately thought of my friend’s babysitter she uses a few hours each week and called her up to see if I could hire the highschooler too. She doesn’t see why it won’t work out. Their family is actually going on vacation for a few weeks so they won’t be able to keep her busy all summer, so this might just be the perfect situation for everyone. I’ll find out on Sunday if she’s interested since she’s on vacation this week with her family. If she’s up for the job, it could work out perfectly since her rate is right in line with what I wanted to pay and I know she’s qualified since she’s done a great job watching my friend’s kids who are the same ages as mine.

If the babysitter works out, this will help me with the issue of when to do the work because ideally I’d like to be able to do an activity with the kids in the morning or early evening, and get my work in around the lunch hour. That way, I’ll still be able to enjoy my summer with the kids, while not feeling like I’m missing out on much with them since my daughter will nap part of the time I’m working.

It’s all coming together a little too perfectly. I’ve got my fingers crossed that the babysitter is interested and available, and that my old boss will pay me what I’m going to ask for.

I’d like to try to keep my evenings free because that is when my husband and I have been doing P90x. We’ve been getting the kids to bed by 8/8:30pm and then putting in an hour {sometimes an hour & 1/2} of exercise for the past 9 days. It’s an intense commitment, but we’re both on board and are hoping to see some incredible results by the time we’re done. Nine days down, only eighty-one to go.

With all that has been going on, I’m wondering how I am going to continue blogging as much as I used to. I also keep a family blog, which I haven’t been able to update nearly as much as the grandparents would like lately. I feel like something has to give right now, and with work {hopefully} starting soon, it’s going to have to be this blog.

I’ve decided I’m going to stop doing link-ups for the time being, as much as I love them and it makes me sad to drop them right now, solely because they take me so much longer than jumping into my dashboard and writing a stream of consciousness. Instead, I’m going to use this space to journal what has been going on with my health and my life and my feelings because that is what’s going to work right now.

I created this blog as a place for me to write about my feelings, struggles, and triumphs as a wife and mom raising two small kids. A wife and mother who just happens to be Bipolar Type I. This blog was also developed to serve as a springboard to hopefully publish my memoir someday. I still want to accomplish that goal. I am a young woman living with a mental illness, but I do not feel limited by my diagnosis. I lead a very full, happy, creative, successful life and I want my story to be out there to give hope to other young women who have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder.

I believe I’m here for a reason. I hope my readers will continue to follow and check in on my blog here because I will continue to be a positive voice in the face of such a misunderstood and stigmatized condition.

Because my diagnosis doesn’t define me. It’s just a part of me that I have learned to live with.

The people and experiences of my life are what make me who I am.

And the journey will go on.

Brilliantly. Because that’s how I roll.

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11 Responses to “Where I go from here”

  1. Andrea July 4, 2012 at 9:19 pm #

    Congratulations! That’s exciting to be able to work from home!! Good luck with it & look forward to hearing how it goes.

    • BipolarMomLife July 4, 2012 at 11:01 pm #

      Thanks Andrea!! We’ll see how it goes. I’ve worked from home before and it’s always a challenge. Laundry is always calling my name and there are so many things that distract me since I’m very easily distracted. :) I’m hopeful it’ll be the best of both worlds.

  2. bipolarmoms July 2, 2012 at 2:40 pm #

    Thanks so much for writing honestly about what it means to be a mom with Bipolar. Your posts make for an uplifting read.

    • BipolarMomLife July 2, 2012 at 3:13 pm #

      Thank you, Nicole for reading and commenting! I just had a chance to check out your blog too. I’m so glad that you and I are both writing about being a mom with bipolar disorder. Let’s keep in touch!

      • bipolarmoms July 2, 2012 at 3:35 pm #

        It would be great if we could keep in touch. I’m new to blogging, so I’m still figuring out how to set up my site the way I want to, and how to find my way around the blogosphere. I’d like to link your site to mine so that my friends can visit your blog, but you’ll have to excuse me if it takes some time for me to figure out how! We’ll chat again…

      • BipolarMomLife July 4, 2012 at 11:02 pm #

        No worries! It took me some time to get acclimated to blogging with WordPress since I’ve only used Blogger before. It’s pretty user-friendly, so I’m sure you’ll find your way around pretty well. If there is anything I can help with, please let me know. I’m glad you’re sharing your story. Keep it up, and keep in touch.

  3. Nicole Davids July 2, 2012 at 2:35 pm #

    Thank you so much for writing honestly about what it means to be a mom with Bipolar. Your posts make for an uplifting read.

  4. Kimberly M (@momgosomething) July 1, 2012 at 8:10 am #

    I am so happy for you! That sounds like an amazing job opportunity. And remember you and your family comes first. We will all be here for you. xo

    • BipolarMomLife July 2, 2012 at 8:38 am #

      Thanks hun. I’m hopeful that it’ll work out and I’ll be able to balance everything. Keep in touch. I’ll still be checking in on ya. Keep your chin up. xoxo

  5. Tina June 29, 2012 at 9:00 am #

    How inspiring! I will of course still read and follow you! I am beginning to wonder if I am not bipolar, too. I go back to the psychiatrist next week and will discuss this with him. I have a feeling that I am though. But like you said, the diagnosis doesn’t define who I am, it is just a part of me that I will have to learn to live with, too. Take good care and good luck with the job! That is exciting!

    • BipolarMomLife July 2, 2012 at 8:36 am #

      Thanks so much, Tina! Yes, bipolar may be a part of who we are, but it doesn’t define us and it shouldn’t limit us in life whatsoever. I’ll still be in touch and hope to blog at least once a week if things aren’t too hectic. Keep in touch!

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