As a mother of two

24 Oct

As a mother of two…

  • our day starts at 7am sharp (or 5am if Mister Man decides he just can’t wait until the sun is completely up to go downstairs and play – I pull him into bed with us until the sun is actually up or else I can’t function).
  • breakfast is usually filled with lots of urgent requests for milk, fruit, napkins, mommymommymommy!!! (Is it 8pm yet?).
  • then we’re either home for the morning while I try to put a few hours in of work while they watch educational children’s shows (Pinky Dinky Doo, anyone?) or I drop them off at the Mom’s Morning Out program up the street where they play for 3 hours.
  • lunchtime is just as urgent as breakfast. Baby Girl has been demoted to sippy cups for her recent cup dumping incidents.
  • three days a week the boy goes to afternoon preschool for 3 hours, so that’s another 10-minute drive across town with both kids to drop him off, while on the way home I have all the windows down and the radio blasting to keep the princess from falling asleep before we get home. otherwise, her nap will be much shorter than I need it to be.
  • she’s in her crib by 1pm every day for her nap, which rarely goes past 2:30. if the little guy is home with me, he’ll always go in his room for quiet time but if he’s not asleep after 30 minutes, I let him come downstairs and play quietly. so I don’t have to listen to him romp around in his room while I’m trying to work blog.
  • by 4pm when we’re home from preschool pick-up (thank God for car lines, sooo much easier), we’re ready for Daddy to be home. Unfortunately for us, we have another two hours to kill. So we have snacks, got to the playground, or head to the library. Or, if on the off-chance I’m attempting to cook that night, the kids watch another show or play on the ipad (Toca Tea Party is AWESOME, btw) while I try to put together a meal that the whole family will actually eat.
  • The hubby gets home around 6pm each night, sometimes earlier, but never later. I’m a very lucky girl in that regard, I do know this and am incredibly thankful for his family-friendly work schedule. The kids play with him for an hour, we all eat, and then do bathtime.
  • After bath, we each take a kid. For a few months, our daughter only would let me put her to bed, now she’s much better about giving Daddy a chance too.
  • By the time 8pm rolls around, both kids are in bed and the hubby and I have our time together.
  • We need to get back into working out together at night, but travel schedules lately have gotten in the way and we’re too exhausted to think of putting on a 90-min P90x DVD. Maybe we’ll do it again in January, but for now we’re just relaxing and trying to get to bed earlier (I joined the “10pm & earlier bedtime club” this week).

I love our kids and the routine we have. This town we live in is so family-oriented and I am so grateful to live 3 minutes away from my best friend. Sometimes, like today for example, I can take a moment and sit back and take it all in and in my heart I feel one thing: content.

Except for one little notion that lingers in my mind and tugs at my uterus.

I think I want one more baby. I just don’t know when.

What I do know is that right now I am content with the two beautiful babies I do have in my arms. I am content with getting a solid 7-8, or sometimes even 9 on the weekend, hours of sleep each and every day. Sometimes I can even nap on the weekends if I want. I am content in being able to work part-time from home and get paid a decent salary, while at the same time, enjoying being able to be with my kids during the day.

I don’t think I’m ready for a newborn again.

Not anytime soon.

 

So we’ll see. The gap between the Little Man and Baby Girl is 2 & 1/4 years and at the rate we’re going, it would likely be a 3 year gap between the Little Miss and a new baby if we started trying soon. That would be nice, but the more I think about it, the more I think that I’d be okay with a bigger gap.

Guess we’ll just have to wait and see.

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4 Responses to “As a mother of two”

  1. Masala Chica October 24, 2012 at 10:39 pm #

    Wow – that’s huge! You guys sound like you have got an amazing rhythm going right now. I hope when you go for it with the third that the experience just blends into the wonderful family life you have now.

    You are lucky. Your kids and husband sound wonderful.

    Kiran

    • BipolarMomLife October 25, 2012 at 9:23 am #

      Thanks so much, Kiran. I do feel very lucky. But of course I didn’t write about how the dirty dishes from breakfast and lunch usually stay in the sink until after the kids have gone to sleep, how my house always looks like a tornado hit it (unless we’re having company, then it only looks like a hurricane hit), and how I am always 3 loads of laundry behind. But hey, it is what it is.

      This morning when I realized that my son’s lego jammed the dryer with a half-dry load in it and a wet washed load in the washer, instead of getting mad about it, I was happy at the thought of getting to buy a new washer/dryer to replace this set that came with the house and is almost 15 years old. :)

      • Masala Chica October 25, 2012 at 12:21 pm #

        Ooh – exciting. new washer and dryer. I bet you have been on sears.com already ;-)

      • BipolarMomLife October 25, 2012 at 12:24 pm #

        I know, right? Silly what is exciting to me now that I’m an old married housewife. HA!

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