On angel’s wings

12 Feb

She was gone in a second.

My post last week was unintentionally appropriate. My mother-in-law called that evening to tell us that my husband’s grandmother had been in the hospital with pneumonia and now she wasn’t eating or drinking. Things did not look good. We starting looking at travel plans.

It was decided that my father-in-law would fly out the next day, and my husband and sister-in-law would join him in Wisconsin on Thursday evening and would stay the weekend. My mother-in-law, the kids and I would stay back and wait for an update.

Unfortunately, the update we were hoping for never came. Instead we got the call telling us she had passed away.

My father-in-law missed saying goodbye in person by one hour. A mere sixty minutes. 3600 seconds.

In my heart I know that she peacefully entered into heaven. I am absolutely positive she knew how much every member of her family loved her. I know that my husband’s grandfather and cousin who left this Earth before her were there to hold her hand. And I believe that Jesus wrapped his loving arms around her and told her he was so proud of her for a life well lived.

And I was grateful for our last trip out to Wisconsin to see her this past May. I wrote about how I was sad that I forgot to take certain pictures, but that I was so glad to have had the time together to make memories that would last longer than the pictures I would have taken.

I spoke at her funeral service. I spoke about one of those memories we made during our last trip. It’s my favorite memory of Grandma. After dinner one night, I suggested we pile all the great grandkids onto the couch around Grandma (6 of the 10 great grandchildren were there) to take some pictures. It was silly and challenging to get all the kids smiling and looking at the camera, but we got some great pictures. The five boys toppled off the couch and resumed their play, while Baby Girl climbed over to sit right next to her Great Grandma.

What happened next was the highlight of my eulogy. Baby Girl stood up and started patting her Great Grandma’s beautiful white perfectly curled hair, as if to say, “Pretty, Grandma! So pretty!”. Only our little lady wasn’t talking quite yet. So it was just an adorable exchange of giggles, smiles, and high-fives. Such a special moment that I did catch on camera. Although I didn’t even need the photo to remember the moment. It was that memorable.

Grandma was laid to rest on Saturday. That evening, the ladies of the family went through her (many) jewelry boxes to decide who would keep which pieces. We reminisced on the times we saw her wearing various bracelets, earrings, and necklaces. My little princess sat on my lap the entire time and would open up one of the wooden boxes, and then slip bracelet after bracelet on her tiny wrists. Everyone agreed that she should keep that bracelet box. Her brother later enjoyed “decorating himself” as he referred to donning the baubles on his arms.

In the end I chose one simple necklace that reminds me of how dainty, elegant, and pretty my husband’s grandmother was. She was a gentle, loving woman who is now an angel who will always watch over her family from heaven.

Her necklace reminds me of angel’s wings.

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Rest in peace, Grandma.

I love you.

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6 Responses to “On angel’s wings”

  1. Shelly February 13, 2013 at 8:41 pm #

    tears…this brought tears immediately to my eyes and a wave of grief passed over and hung around for a bit. We lost my husband’s parents within 5 days of each other right before Christmas. The missing doesn’t end. We have so many wonderful memories of them and oodles of pictures and stories. I got many of my mother-in-law’s jewelry pieces and my girls picked out some as well. Thank you for sharing your story!

    • BipolarMomLife February 14, 2013 at 10:11 am #

      I’m so sorry Shelly. I have been behind on reading all my favorite blogs and didn’t know you had suffered these losses. Sending hugs and prayers. xoxo

  2. Judy fryer February 13, 2013 at 3:55 pm #

    Bipolar Mom thought you may like to hear this song which was written by a friend, for my husband and I, in memory of our son….http://philbaggaley.bandcamp.com/track/what-a-day-that-will-be

    • BipolarMomLife February 14, 2013 at 10:07 am #

      Oh Judy, that was beautiful! Such a touching song and tribute to your son. Thank you so much for sharing this special song with me. Did you ever consider blogging about what you went through?

  3. Judy fryer February 13, 2013 at 3:01 pm #

    Beautifully written from a loving heart.

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